Elemental Blessing Ritual
As we wrap up the current chapter and turn the pages to a "new year", let's do it with a commitment to decolonization, re-Africanization, and being magnetic. You don't need another fleeting resolution but a profound shift in your energy and mindset. What...
read moreDecolonizing Love: Rediscovering Indigenous Practices in Relationships
Imagine a couple sitting together, deeply in love, and trying to find the right words to describe their feelings. The man turns to his beautiful partner and says, "Our love is so romantic." But what does that actually mean? When you have a cultural legacy...
read moreEnhancing Relationships with Indigenous African Spirit Technologies and Elemental Wisdom
In our quest to understand the intricate dance of human relationships, we have been fortunate to draw inspiration and wisdom from indigenous African initiations, particularly the teachings of Malidoma Some and Sobonfu Some. These remarkable jegnas...
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Learning from Ancient Sacred Wisdom: 3 Ways to Make Your Love Life Way Simpler
A quick Google search of “relationships are…” and you’ll find “hard”, “pointless”, “not perfect” and “work” as your first suggestions. There are roughly 500,000 books related to relationships listed on Amazon. Black and Brown women are constantly bombarded with...
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Unlock the Symbolic Language of Love: Four ways to demonstrate love using sacred symbols
Love is more than saying, "I Love You!". Love is action... Love is service... Culturally, love is the demonstration of your respect, honor and duty for yourself and another. Symbolic language speaks to our higher mind and can be used to unlock the greatest...
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Don’t Be Scared?? Living without fear in relationships
Dating is hard. There aren't enough good men/women. We stay in relationships that we know don't serve us because "there aren't enough men" or "I don't deserve anything better" or the ever popular "it's hard to date these days"... but is that true? Where did we get...
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Vulnerability… Are you hoeing the earth or just hoin’?
What are we trying to say when we want our partner to be "vulnerable"? Merriam-Webster defines being vulnerable as "easily hurt or harmed physically, mentally or emotionally" and "open to attack, harm, or damage"!!! vulnerable, adj, from Late...
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When was your last good date? When is the next one?
There are very few things as refreshing as a really good date…right? Exactly, so we are inviting to you to join us for our latest love challenge: “52 Date Nights” It is a challenge to have a planned date day or night every week with your loved one for one year...
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Patience is a Vitue
We all have heard that “Patience is a Virtue”. Regular use and time have made the word appear cliché to many. However, there is such a profound cultural wisdom in these words that can be difficult to absorb emotionally especially here in the west. Key tenants of...
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Relationships are like a dance… know when to lead and when to follow!
DANCE like ALL of our RELATIONSHIPS require harmony, balance, & unity. Sometimes we lead... other times we follow. Done well we create beautiful artistry! Done poorly we look confused and out of sync. Our Relationships are a whimsical continuous dance. Leading,...
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Montsho & Nwasha
We LOVE helping passionate and successful people find, keep and perfect their loving relationships! We believe that everyone deserves true and authentic love so we teach the Sacred Science of Soulmating in books, coaching, speaking and online courses. Read more about us here.