As we wrap up the current chapter and turn the pages to a “new year”, let’s do it with a commitment to decolonization, re-Africanization, and being magnetic.

You don’t need another fleeting resolution but a profound shift in your energy and mindset.


What do you want more of in love? What do you want to know about the African Indigenous Law of Attraction?

The Elemental Blessing Ritual is a ceremony that draws upon the four elements – Earth, Water, Fire, and Air – as channels for spiritual connection and the manifestation of positive energies in your relationship.

Elemental Blessing Ceremony

  • Earth – Grounding and Stability:

Find a quiet outdoor space or use a potted plant indoors. Stand or sit barefoot on the earth, feeling the ground beneath you. Express gratitude for the stability and foundation your relationship provides. Symbolically plant a small token, like a crystal or a written intention, in the soil as a seed for growth. Or, plant actual seeds to nurture as a reminder to nurture your love.

  • Water – Emotional Flow and Cleansing:

Fill a ceremonial bowl with water. Together, dip your hands in the water, cleansing away any negative energies. Share words of affirmation about the emotional support and flow within your relationship. Pour the water onto a plant or into the earth, symbolizing the continuous renewal of your connection.

  • Fire – Passion and Transformation:

Use a candle as a representation of fire. Light the candle together, acknowledging the passion and transformative energy in your relationship. Share your desires and intentions for the coming year. Allow the candle to burn as a symbol of the eternal flame of your love.

  • Air – Communication and Unity:

Find a breezy spot or use a feather as a representation of air. Stand together and allow the air to surround you. Share your thoughts and dreams for the future, emphasizing the importance of communication. Wave the feather or simply feel the air as a unifying force connecting you both.

Closing:

Sit in quiet reflection for a few moments, feeling the collective energy of the elements around you. Conclude the ceremony by holding hands and expressing gratitude for the balance, renewal, passion, and unity that the elements bring to your relationship.

This Elemental Blessing Ceremony aligns with Indigenous African culture’s reverence for the natural elements as conduits for spiritual connection. It allows you to actively engage with the elements, embodying a deeper appreciation for the elemental energies that contribute to the harmony and growth of your relationship.

Let us know what you want to magnetize to your intimate relationship.

Nya Akoma (Take Heart)