There are very few things as refreshing as a really good date…right? Exactly, so we are inviting to you to join us for our latest love challenge: “52 Date Nights” It is a challenge to have a planned date day or night every week with your loved one for one year straight. This is not about money or always going out. It is really about being Consistent and building creative Unified Minds that keep our relationships fresh and fulfilling.
The idea is that if you consciously plan to “grow together” you will never randomly “grow apart” as so many claim in failed relationships. That’s dope right? So every year on our anniversary we set our relationship goals to ensure that we live out a Unified Purpose throughout the coming year. We write them out and then keep them on our Love Alter so that they are always visible and nearby. We include books to read, trips to take, shows to see, adventures to embark on, political agendas, money and sensual love to make!
Here is the simple formula. First, we both take two dates a month (usually) alternating weeks as the planner or receiver. Next, we agree that one of the two dates must be in the house without any real money being spent. Then, we strive to keep most “out of the house” dates to a $75 limit that we commit to spend with a Network of Black Owned Businesses (or at least places where we are gainfully employed). Once a season (4xs a year) there is a ball out exception on the $$$ you choose to spend. Finally, we agree to have a talk or leave a note or card for each other about what we liked most about the date.
That’s all there is to it! Simple as it may sound… this formula is a full proof way to be consistent while having variety, bring order while having spontaneity, and most of all create challenge while be easy on your wallet!
So are you with us? Well then let the love games begin!